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Glass House Ministries

Sick of pretending everything is fine when it’s really falling apart? Longing for a place where you can be real and know that you are accepted? That’s the heart of Glass House Ministries. We hope you’ll join us here.

Website: http://www.glasshouseministries.blogspot.com/
Members: 45
Latest Activity: 1 day ago

Welcome to Glass House Ministries!

What Is Glass House Ministries?

The heart of Glass House Ministries was born during a painful season in our family, when both our sons succumbed to the temptation to use drugs and consequently battled with the force of addiction in their lives. As Christians, Wayne and I raised our four children to honor and respect the Lord, doing our best to train and disciple them to live a lifestyle of integrity. The problems we faced with our boys left us wrestling with anger, hurt, and confusion, as we tried to figure out where we’d gone wrong as parents.

We experienced two types of attitudes within the Christian community as we trod this desert. Some came alongside with words of comfort and support, joining us in prayer, as we trudged through the fear and the darkness. Others were less gracious; they prayed for our family, but their looks alone made it clear that they suspected what we feared: that we were failures. We knew we weren’t perfect parents, and the sting of judgment reinforced the shame we already carried.

For a short time we pretended everything was fine, but we soon grew to hate the charade. We decided instead to just be real about our lives and to deal with the problems head-on. As we submitted our hearts to the Spirit’s tender ministrations, we began to see healing and restoration take place in our family. One day we found ourselves coming alongside another family in distress, just as they’d come alongside us during our trial, and soon thereafter Glass House Ministries became more than just a dream in our heart.

For our family it happened to be drug abuse. We could just as easily have been the victims of unwed pregnancy . . . abortion . . . divorce . . . alcoholism . . . pornography . . . eating disorders . . . sexual abuse or addictions . . . depression . . . or a host of other harmful realities we see prevalent in today’s society. The truth is that people make choices that are less than healthy because they are driven by needs they do not know how to satisfy . . . the need for approval, the need for love, the need for acceptance, the need for respect, the need for security, the need for purpose . . . the list goes on.

In our modern-day world, broken homes and blended families are the norm. As many as one in four people will deal with cancer in their lifetime. People live under the constant threat of terrorism. Everyone wants to feel safe, wants to be able to trust in someone or something. But people will let us down, things will not fulfill as we expect, and when our confidence is violated, we easily grow bitter and unforgiving, angry and crippled in our ability to love and relate well. We demand perfection from ourselves and others, so that we do not have to deal with disappointment ever again, and life becomes impossible.

Is your life impossible? Have you finally come to understand that neither you nor anyone else can be perfect? Are you ready to be real? That’s where we found ourselves not so long ago, and we know we aren’t alone. We all live in glass houses. Throwing stones of bitterness and judgment at one another will only result in shattered houses and shattered lives. Misunderstandings, shame, fear, guilt, confusion . . . all these work to keep those hurt by life’s disappointments trapped and silent, isolated and alone; but it doesn’t have to be that way. Real people have real problems and they need a place to go, so we founded Glass House Ministries, a safe place to be real.

Through Glass House Ministries, Wayne and I pray God will use us as a source of comfort, encouragement, prayer, and support, to come alongside others in whatever challenge they face, just as God used fellow-Christians to minister to us in our time of need. We want Glass House Ministries to be a safe haven, a place to freely share and find hope. And no, your life doesn't have to be in a shambles to participate here. If you are an encourager, and you have a heart to pray for people, you are welcome here. Basically, if you want to be here, you are welcome here!

Wayne and I are not counselors, therapists, or attorneys. We do not claim to have "all the answers." We do care. We can listen. We will pray. And we will share our own story. Ultimately, it is God Who has all the answers . . . to every imaginable situation we can encounter in this world. We will point people to Him without apology, for it is only through His mercy and grace that our family was made whole again, and it is our heart to see the same thing happen to the people who come to Glass House Ministries.

We're glad you're here,
Cheri and Wayne

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Below is the latest post from the Glass House Ministries main blog. Click the "more" button to see others.

The Searching Heart


We recently sang a song, Here and Now, in church, and it touched my heart deeply. I am not sure of the artist, but I found and copied the lyrics, so I could share them with our readers.


Here and Now


Chorus 1:
Here and now, here in this moment
Here and now I turn to You
All that my searching heart has longed for can be found
'Cause You're in this moment, here and now


Verse:
What majesty, what mystery,
The God of all eternity
Stepped into time and gave His life for me
Your hand is seen in galaxies,
Yet Your Spirit dwells in me
So vast and yet You're still within our reach


Bridge:
There is nowhere You can't be found
Nothing on earth could ever keep Your Presence out


Chorus 2:
Here and now, here in this moment
Here and now I turn to You
All that my searching heart has longed for can be found
'Cause You're in this moment, here and now
You're in this moment here and now


I pondered the words of this song as we sang, and I was overwhelmed with gratitude. I thought of all the things my searching heart has longed for over the years:

Peace: I've longed to be free of fear and worry over what others think about me, about my family...  I've longed to know that my children know their Lord and Savior for themselves, that they are not in bondage to the world and its lies...  I've longed to know that my extended family members know their Lord and Savior...

Deliverance: I've longed for my two sons to be free of addiction to drugs. I've longed to be healed of bitterness and hurts that I have experienced both from the world and from within the body of Christ...

Love: I've longed for a good man to love me, for my kids to love me, for God to love me... a love that extends beyond performance and exists just because...

Acceptance: I've longed to be accepted just as I am, quirks and all.

Appreciation: I've longed for people to see that I have something of value to offer the world.

My longings are not so different from anyone else's, and they have been realized in Jesus Christ, in God, through the power of the Holy Spirit. What I have to offer the world is my own testimony of how God has filled the emptiness inside me, and how He longs to do that for them too. What can be more valuable than that?

He has been able to reach my children; they now walk with Him. He has taught me what love is, and that He Himself is the embodiment of love, whether it manifests itself in a husband, nature, a loyal pet, a godly friend, an intimate relationship with Him. If my eyes are open to Him, I can see where He has met each of these longings. And where answers are not yet visible, He is at work to bring them to pass, for He will perfect those things that concern me (Psalm 138:8), and He will complete the good work which He has begun (Philippians 1:6).

Every trial I've faced has pushed me closer to Him. I can honestly thank Him for those trials, because they led me on a journey to complete surrender to Him. It was in that place of total surrender that I found the peace of here and now.

God is faithful. My life, the life of my family, is a living testimony to that truth. The world is full of hurt and pain, full of hate and betrayal. There is a refuge, a shelter, a hope... and it is found in Jesus Christ.

May you find the peace your heart longs for today,

Cheri

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Cheri Hardaway Comment by Cheri Hardaway 1 day ago
Sherry,

I think you are exactly right! The more we rest in Him and follow His lead, the more He can ready us for His answers to our questions, prayers!

Love you too! Happy New Year!
Sherry Comment by Sherry 1 day ago
Awesome post, Cheri! I love the anology of dancing with God. So appropriate. I have decided that along with the other handful of resolutions I've made this year, I'm adding one more. Right now I'm in the process of enduring. Waiting. Wishing and hoping for answered prayers. The more I complain, fight, and stamp my feet, God isn't going to move any faster. I simply have to wait on him. So in essence, I'm taking my vow of silence. No more wining, complaining, or "it's not fairs". Silence and thankfulness that things could be worse. I'm thinking that this simple approach might make my slow dance with God a bit more enjoyable ;) Love you big, my sister.
Cheri Hardaway Comment by Cheri Hardaway 1 day ago
A great lesson learned, Jenni! I pray for bountiful blessings for you and yours in 2010!

Hugs,
Cheri
Jenni B Comment by Jenni B 1 day ago
2009 was a year where we learned to be content whatever our circumstances...they aren't always pleasant, but we're learning to appreciate what we HAVE rather than what we have LOST. God is still good.
Ruby look for a message from me.
Jenni
Cheri Hardaway Comment by Cheri Hardaway 1 day ago
Thank you, Robin!
Robin Comment by Robin on December 27, 2009 at 9:24pm
Awe.. Cookie is so precious.. may the Lord be with you all during this time and comfort you all. God Bless!
Cheri Hardaway Comment by Cheri Hardaway on December 16, 2009 at 12:55am
Thanks, Robin! I wrote one to each of my kids, and to my hubby. They posted the last couple weeks. If you want to check them out, you can go to my blog and read the last few posts. They are also linked to pictures on my right-hand sidebar. (www.glasshouseministries.blogspot.com)

Love you!
Cheri
Robin Comment by Robin on December 15, 2009 at 10:02pm
I loved this! What a beautiful daughter of the Lord!
Cheri Hardaway Comment by Cheri Hardaway on December 5, 2009 at 9:59am
Hi everyone,

Please welcome our newest member to Glass House, Sandy! We are happy you are here!

Hugs,
Cheri
Cheri Hardaway Comment by Cheri Hardaway on December 3, 2009 at 4:03pm
Let's welcome Suzita to Glass House Ministries! Suzita, jump in anywhere. We are excited to have you with us. Blessings, Cheri
 

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